• Tips Complete Picture

      Don’t be afraid to make the first move: Do “traditional” dating rules apply in online dating (i.e. men make the first move)? Truthfully, we don’t think traditional dating rules should apply in offline dating. If you are interested in someone, make a move.

    • Tips My Profile
      Write a quality first message:
      • Keep your introductory message brief and casual.
      • Write messages that are original but not to creepy personal.
      • The personal touch shows you’re genuinely interested, but the brevity and non-committal tone shows you know you’re special, too, so you’re willing to walk away.
      • The personal touch shows you’re genuinely interested, but the brevity and non-committal tone shows you know you’re special, too, so you’re willing to walk away.
      • Introduce yourself in a way that is clear enough that the other person isn’t freaked out or caught off guard, but intriguing enough that they want to write you back, find out more, and strike up a conversation.
    • Tips Find People

      Use optimistic language. In our experiment, we found that certain words ("fun", "happy") made profiles more popular. Talk about what excites you, or paint a picture of a really great day that you would want to be a part of. Would you date you?

    • Tips Profile Visitors

      Take it slow. People have different commitments in their lives, and online dating isn’t always at the very top. Sometimes you’ll receive responses right away. But, most of the people don’t have time to answer every single message they receive in their inbox. You just need to have the patience to find "that" person, wherever they are.

    • Tips Profile Visitors

      You don't need to tell everyone everything. You're just starting out, so it's OK to only reveal a little bit because you have no idea who these people are or how this thing works and it's kind of scary! Just write what you'd feel comfortable sharing with a stranger at a bar.

    • Tips Quality Photo

      Use good quality photos – All your photos should be clean, focused and most important is that it must feature you.

    • Tips Hobby Pic

      Upload a travel or hobby related photo. We suggest this because everyone looks so rested and relaxed on vacation, or maybe it’s because it’s another great conversation starter. Either way, adding a vacation or hobby related photo to your profile can get you up to 8% more messages.

    • Tips To be Approve

      We are doing our best to create a safe, secure environment so you’ll feel 100% confident throughout the entire experience with us. That’s why we review every profile and photo on Social Lux before it’s ever posted.

    • Tips Phone Number

      Don’t give out your number. Wait until you know someone a little better before you share your contact details. If someone asks for your number straight away, we suggest you to politely decline.

    • Tips Report User

      Report unwarranted and inappropriate behaviour. If you encounter a member that has been rude to you, do not hesitate to report them to the Customer Support team using the report button on their profile.